
I had a nine-month affair with a married man when I was 19 years old and he was 29. This was five years ago. After the truth came out, I told everyone I had no idea he was married, but truth was I knew the whole time; I was just too selfish to end it.

My ex-boyfriend and I dated extremely seriously for three years. We broke up around this time last year because we realized that we wanted different things out of life. It was an extremely hard breakup, and I had to move in order to get over him and our relationship.

DearSugar and Stuck in the Middle May need your help. She knows her friend's fiance has cheated on her, but she doesn't know if she should butt in and tell her the truth. It's a complicated situation, but what would you do?

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True Confession.
"I secretly love the fact that you can't get over me. That's what you get for cheating — you should have known I wouldn't take you back!

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True Confession.
"I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. I know the girl's phone number and email address, so would I be forgiven if I were to tell her he has an
STI, even though it's not true?

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True Confession.
"Is it wrong to let another man go down on me since my husband refuses to do it? We've been married almost four years and he only tried it once — he said it just wasn't his thing.

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True Confession.
"Before last week, I'd had sex with two men. Now the number has soared to six.

In my book, there’s never a good excuse to cheat, but sadly I’ve had friends who’ve cheated, and they’ve always managed to come up with multiple excuses. Even if I can understand their rationale, I still want them to stop. It goes without saying that when I’ve been in the position of supporting a friend who’s cheating, it’s been extremely difficult for me.

Dear Sugar,
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. For the past two months I have had dreams of catching him cheating on me and it's driving me to snoop on him. I look in his email, his Facebook account, and phone whenever I get a chance.

Earlier this week I came across an article from
The Huffington Post examining why men cheat. Referencing a recent
Oprah that showcased Dr. M.