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Handle This: He's More Interested in Porn

DearSugar — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 13:00:00 -0700

In the past few months your sex life has all but dried up. You’re always trying to initiate things, and you’ve even gone so far as to buy sexy new lingerie, but nothing seems to get your boyfriend interested. When you ask him about it, he says he’s sleep deprived and stressed out.

One night you wake up and realize he’s no longer in bed. Following sounds coming from the living room, you peek in to find him masturbating to porn on his computer, when you haven't had sex in a month! How would you handle this?

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"Screw You, Porn Addicts!"

GiggleSugar — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 11:00:00 -0700

Hey, porn addicts. Are you listening? My favorite crank teenager has some advice for you. It involves leaving your computer and getting a girlfriend. How heterocentric of him! He'll learn . . .

You Asked: He's Into S&M

DearSugar — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 17:00:00 -0700

Dear Sugar,

I'm usually OK with porn. I watch it myself and have watched it with former boyfriends however, my current boyfriend has always refused to let me watch his porn with him, and recently I learned why. The porn he watches is full of incredibly disturbing sado-masochistic porn, which I had no idea he was even slightly into. We've been together for almost two years! I'm definitely not into this kind of thing, and it makes me uncomfortable that he is. Can I approach him about this? And if so, what should I say? I don't want to ban him from porn that would be hypocritical, I'm just so shocked, and I feel like I need to know what about this turns him on.

— Doesn't Do Dominance Dee

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You Asked: I Think Porn Is Disgusting, But He Likes it

DearSugar — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 17:00:00 -0700

Dear Sugar,
Four months ago when my live-in boyfriend was out of town, I discovered that he had downloaded multiple videos of porn and has received numerous pictures of naked women from his male friends via email. I confronted him about it, and he sees nothing wrong with it. He said that he'd stop looking at them, but I know for a fact he's lying.

I have serious issues with pornography as an industry, and on principle alone I find porn disgusting. A person looking at videos of people having sex is something that is not acceptable to me. I am so upset that I'm ready to walk away. Am I completely wrong?

— Disgusted Deb

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Meet Japan's Oldest Porn Star!

GiggleSugar — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 13:00:00 -0700

For most senior citizens, retiring from your job means drifting into the sunset years by gardening, going on cruises, and hanging out with your grandchildren. Seventy-three-year-old Shigeo Tokuda, however, is not going gentle into the good night. He, dear readers, is an elderly porn star! His rep found that the older the stars were in the porn vids he distributed, the more vids they were selling. Even porn kings in the porn mecca of Los Angeles want to get in on the (senior) action. Tokuda's wife and daughter support his career — they just don't wanna know the details. I feel the same way!

Porn Intro Could Use Some Reworking

GiggleSugar — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 09:00:00 -0700

And by "reworking," I mean the elimination of all attempts at narrative, acting, or any pretense that this "professor meets Hungarian immigrant" porn is about anything but meaningless, grim sex. I say, less bad acting, more shtupping!

This or That: Slovenly or Porn Habit?

DearSugar — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 12:00:00 -0700

After nearly two years of harmonious dating, you and your boyfriend have decided to move in together. You’re both extremely excited about the prospect, but after only a few weeks of living under the same roof, you’re learning a few things you never knew. You’re still compatible in most ways, but would it be worse if he . . .This: Has no ability or desire to keep any portion of the place clean or tidy? You can take messy, but it’s the grime, filth, and caked on crumbs that are killing you.Or . . .That: Has a very persistent habit of watching porn until the wee hours of the morning? He only does it after you go to bed, but it stills feels too often to be healthy. Source

This or That: Slovenly or Porn Habit?

This — He’s a slob through and through.

That — His porn habit is consistent to a fault.

Nation Buys Porn With Stimulus Package

CitizenSugar — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 15:40:19 -0700

Nation Buys Porn With Stimulus Package Well it's not the flat-screen TVs I was predicting: An independent market-research firm, AIMRCo (Adult Internet Market Research Company), has discovered an uptick in the porn market tied to the stimulus checks. "Many of the sites we surveyed have reported 20-30 percent growth in membership rates since mid-May when the checks were first sent out, and typically the Summer is a slow period for this market."

Nudie Magazine For Girls

DearSugar — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 16:40:00 -0700

Would You Buy a Nudie Mag With Pics of Hot Guys? A couple years ago, I found a cool magazine at my local used bookstore. It was called Sweet Action and billed itself as "Porn For Girls." It was basically a magazine with naked and seminaked pictures of real guys you might know — tattooed, a little dirty, and skinny rather than buff.

A News Report With a Disturbing Twist

GiggleSugar — Thu, 08 May 2008 10:00:00 -0700

Inside Edition covered the story of a mother of three who mysteriously received a Girls Gone Wild vid in the mail one day. Assuming it was sent by accident, she promptly called customer service and returned the vid. Imagine her surprise when the same "mishap" happened again and again . . . gasp! (For more on the story, click here.)