
Over brunch with a girlfriend this weekend, she commented that now it's not cool to be flashy about money, like throwing down $1,000 at a club for a table with bottle service or spending $500 on a sweater when someone makes a $50,000 salary.
The economy is causing people to act differently with their money and towards other people's money — it's not to say that there's no place for splurging in a rocky economy, but do you think that it's now more unacceptable to be flashy even if you have the money to spend?
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In 2005, President Bush used $42.8 million from corporate sponsors to fund his inauguration. With
only $9.74 million of public money at his disposal, and rules against using money left over from the general election for transition, President-elect Obama must renew fundraising efforts for his January 20th move-in date.
Obama is having a tough time avoiding corporate money, according to CNN.

Many of our parents are nearing retirement age, and it's likely their retirement portfolios took a hit with the market. Almost half of you said
your parents have a good idea about your financial state, but does the transparency go both ways?
Ron Lieber of
The New York Times suggests it's important to open an inter-generational dialogue about the family's finances: He says parents should be honest if their retirement savings have been devastated and their kids should admit their monthly debt payments.

The economy has forced us to focus more on the present and less on the future; we're more worried about holding on to our jobs than plotting our next promotion. One of the biggest (and most expensive) topics under the future umbrella is starting a family — are you concerned that financial issues will hold you back from having kids?
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We're celebrating Halloween with
In-the-Black Week, but this tip is something to also keep in mind when you are preparing to shop for the upcoming holidays.
In-the-Black tip: Shop with a purpose. Make a list of the things you're hoping to find, whether it's a new holiday party dress for you or gifts for the people you love.

Halloween is one day that's about playing tricks and getting treats in the black of night, but when it comes to money, being in-the-black is always in mode. A few simple tricks, and you'll be on your way to treating yourself to a more stable financial life. Check back all week for ways to get more out of your money.

People often tell me they have a love / hate relationship with money. If you had to choose one or the other, would you say that you love or hate money?
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Everyone knows the phrase 'keeping up with the Joneses,' and this type of competition often causes people to live beyond their means. It's not always apparent that this mentality is the cause for wanting certain things, but retrospect can show that you may not have done or purchased something so elaborate if it weren't for the people around you. Have you ever felt the need to keep up?

A busy social calendar is hardly a bad thing, but it can mean an expensive month ahead. Socializing doesn't always involve spending money but often it does. Have you ever said no to an invitation because you either didn't want to spend the money or didn't have it to spend?

Recently you were asked out on a date by a guy who works in your building. For your first date, he takes you on a fun factory tour of a local brewery, and you guys grab slices of pizza afterward. On the next date he takes you to his favorite burrito place and then an art gallery.